Why People Sabotage Good Relationships.

Self-sabotage is when we say we want something and then go about making sure it doesn’t happen.” –Alyce Cornyn-Selby. Ever wondered why you always sabotage your relationships? You fall in love, start a relationship, make long term goals but find yourself creating problems in order for it to end. It’s okay if you’re that kind…

‘Thinking Happy Thoughts’ Is Not An Option

When I tell people I talk to myself all the time, they think I’m crazy. Well, guess what? We’re all crazy, because you also talk to yourself. Okay, maybe not loudly like me, but there’s always that dialogue you have in your head with yourself. Whether you’re an introvert or extrovert, the person you’ve talked…

Why Care About What People Would Say?

I was talking to my friend the other day before I wrote this post and I told him I was scared people were going to judge me wrongly. He told me he was also having the same problem but I shouldn’t let it stop me from writing about what I was going through. Few days…

Battles With Comparison.

I’ve talked about social media comparison before but let’s be honest, I’m not entirely a saint and neither are you. There are times when I’m insecure about myself and truthfully, we’ve all been there. Overthinking at 2am that I’m not supposed to still be at this stage. Sometimes, I feel really stagnant and compare myself…

The Best Coping Mechanism For Self Hatred.

Is it just me or do you sometimes feel like you don’t really deserve anything good? You just sit there and flood your mind with thoughts of how you’re the worst person ever. Don’t worry, no need to be embarrassed. We’ve all been there. Some cases are just worse than others. Sometimes, you look at…

Confessions Of A Once Negative Suicidal Teen.

I went out to see a friend yesterday and when I got back, as I tried to sleep, all I had were negative thoughts. I saw myself as a liar and hypocrite. I have a blog where my main focus is on changing how people view themselves mentally but I hadn’t even changed how I…

Scroll, Scroll, Scroll…

Scrolling, scrolling, scroll some more, not quite done? Didn’t think so. That’s pretty much what you do all day since the quarantine started right? Scrolling through the media looking at your feed filled with pictures of wonderful people you’re following. You keep repeating this cycle day after day and before you know it, you start…